Been Forever

Well it dawned on me that I haven't written on here in pretty much a year! We have still kind of been trying but with many difficulties seeing as my cycle is soo very rare! 4 weeks ago I decided it was time to make some lifestyle changes. I know that part of my cycle issues is that I'm very much overweight. They say in many over weight people they produce different hormones which sometimes makes their cycle only a few times a year. Lately I seem to get it 2 months back to back then nothing for 2-3 months, which obviously makes it very difficult to conceive! So I am now on a diet that involves counting calories, and such. I pretty much joined a free website and based on your height and weight and how much you wanna lose by when, it gives you a certain amount of calories, carbs, fat and proteins to intake a day and so far in 4 weeks I've lost 14 pounds. It's definitly hard to change so many things in your life at once, but it's something I want and need to do for my health, and if I want any chance of having a second child. We have decided to continue to try during all these changes, if I somehow happen to become pregnant during it, I plan to continue it during my pregnancy(and after) which wont be hard seeing as with my first pregnancy I only gained 8 pounds total, and after having my daughter, was 20 pounds less then pre pregnancy. So fingers crossed for a successful weightloss journey as well to eventually become pregnant. I think I'll be updating this more now, to track my journey. Not that I really have many readers. But still at least something for myself.